Here’s an example of how my spastic brain works:
- Husband and I discuss the old Men At Work song ‘The Land Down Under.’ Neither of us can tell what words come soon after the beginning of the chorus “I come from the land down under . . . women xxxerelrks;ej?? and men s;lkrjoeirn?? . . . ?”
- We know there’s something in there that rhymes with “thunder.”
- There are a surprisingly large number of words that could rhyme with thunder (wonder, asunder, blunder, plunder, . . . )
- Husband declares that “men plunder” cant be part of the chorus because that’s too negative for a fun song.
- I think “men plunder” IS part of the chorus – and perform internet research to prove my righteousness.
- Then I wonder . . . what does plundering – or bad behavior – or . . . VIRTUE . . . have to do with finding a calling?
- A blog post is born.
As I delve into ideas, theories, examples and stories about people who find and pursue their calling, an archetype emerges. The archetype of the person who busts his/her butt to make the thing they love happen. The hero who pays their dues to win the prize. This camp feels like the virtuous camp, the group that deserves to be happy and succeed because, by golly, they earned it. It seems a bit romantic and righteous when the virtuous folks win the prize (i.e., succeed at their amazing, heart stopping calling).
HOWEVER: there are a lot of rebels out there in internet land. Rebels who say you don’t have to pay your dues, paying your dues is outdated, getting in line is for losers, go for the gusto from Day 1, have a plan, treat your passion like a business, get serious, stop being fluffy. This camp has a LOT of appeal, maybe because I’m lazy – or maybe because I want to be modern and hip and sophisticated. It is not the camp for the Don Quixotes among us, but dang, their reasoning has an allure of pragmatism, results-orientation, and quick bang for the buck. I’m attracted to this camp – but I’m a little worried that so many folks in this camp seem to like trumpeting how they’re making the big bucks doing what they love (not that there’s anything wrong with that – I would LOVE to make the big bucks at my calling – but all the trumpeting makes me a little suspicious.
Looks like people in both camps can achieve success. I suppose time will tell if both sets feel satisfied with the way their lives unfold based on their choices – and whether both sets feel that they found their true calling.
I’ve been following a friend who just published her first novel. She is doing all the things the virtuous writer camp calls for (see Stephen King’s book On Writing)- joining writing groups, taking writing classes, submitting stories to (non-paying) literary magazines, setting up book signings at local bookstores, speaking at conferences. It sounds like a struggle, and she is not on the bestseller list (yet).
This makes the potential writer (that would be me) wonder – is the virtuous path the way to go? Is it really the virtuous path? Or IS it outdated? Is this a question of morals or tradition – or a question of changing with the times? Right now the virtuous (aka “hard working”) path feels like a “should” as opposed to a “want to” for me (and, for some reason, I have a mental block about following the virtuous path). Eeek – does this mean I am unworthy?
I don’t have an answer – I’m wondering what all of you think? Do you have to travel the virtuous path to find your calling – or can you choose a different way? Is this really a virtuous/non-virtuous choice – or is it a choice between tradition and revolution? Or is it simply a matter of personal preference?
Please share your thoughts in the comments.
For anyone who’s curious, here are the lyrics to the chorus of The Land Down Under:
Do you come from a land down under?
Where women glow and men plunder
Can’t you hear, can’t you hear the thunder?
You better run, you better take cover.
Women glow and men plunder. Who’d’a thunk?
Matthew
February 19, 2010
For years I thought the words of this song went :
‘he just smiled and gave me a bite of his sandwich’.
I always thought they were odd lyrics, but then I’d never heard of vegimite.
amikim
February 19, 2010
@Matthew: me too! I didn’t know about vegimite until a few years ago. I still think the lyrics are funny.
Jessica
February 22, 2010
It’s interesting that ‘The Land Down Under’ led you to thinking about this subject. Australians (and I speak as an Aussie here so please don’t think I’m being prejudice) are irreverent. It’s a cultural thing. We have a distrust of people who are smarter and socially higher than we are – and we really don’t like ‘Goodie Two Shoes.’
So, it’s possible that were you to place the ‘virtuous’ and ‘non-virtuous’ path before the average Aussie, they’d be up for the second option. (I’m not saying I’m an average Aussie.) It probably harks back to the days of convicts.
I personally shy away from things that would be considered illegal. I would definitely view that as ‘non-virtuous.’ But I like the way you spoke of ‘traditional’ and ‘revolution.’ I think it’s important not to stick with the crowd just because you believe that’s ‘following the rules.’ Often it’s the people who take a bit of a risk by trying something different who meet with the success.
So while I wouldn’t go with the rebellious, caution-to-the-wind side, I’d say stepping out of the crowd and giving something different a go can be worth it.
On a side point, some believe the ‘women glow and men plunder’ phrase means the women are beautiful and the men are strong, although others attribute more sinister meanings. However, many people don’t seem to realise that the second chorus is different to the first. It goes ‘where bear does flow and men chunder.’ Chunder is Aussie slang for vomiting (we have many slang words for this). It seems no song about Oz is truly complete without a vomiting euphemism.
Jessica
February 22, 2010
Just want to clarify. When I said ‘I would personally shy away from things that would be considered illegal’ I wasn’t meaning that I felt you were encouraging illegal behaviour. 🙂
Perhaps a better way to put it would be ‘I would personally shy away from things that would be considered inconsiderate and detrimental to others.’ 😉
amikim
February 22, 2010
nicely put.
amikim
February 22, 2010
Oh wow Jessica – thanks for the cultural references. I had always thought that Aussies were irreverent (Maybe learning Waltzing Matilda as an elementary schooler created that sense), and I think it comes out as a love of life and the outdoors.
I agree, risk taking is critical to success!
and chunder = vomiting. I. had. no. idea. 🙂
Is “Oz” a nickname for Australia? I love it!
Jessica
February 22, 2010
Of course! Where do you think the wizard came from? 😛
Actually I have no idea which came first, the wizard or the nickname for Australia. But it’s used now. Aussie/Ozzie.
Quon Mcgee
December 1, 2010
I can’t agree with the above post, and would like to pick up on a few of the OP’s points. Not everyone will agree and though I am one of them, I do respect your right to have your view. Either way I have enjoyed reading What do you think – is virtue required to find your calling? 40 Days to Change.
Ami
December 1, 2010
@Quon Mcgee: thanks for the comment.
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December 1, 2010
This is a really useful post. Do you mind if i translate it into Italian for my visitors?
Ami
December 1, 2010
@columbus: no bad words. (kidding!) Please, go ahead, hope it makes sense in another language. (how will ‘men plunder’ translate I wonder – not to mention ‘chunder’?)
Houston Bliese
December 1, 2010
All work and no play, will make you a manager.
Ami
December 1, 2010
@Houston: may you become a manager – of a different color.
Rosanna Barnard
December 8, 2010
Great post